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Wednesday, July 30, 2008


Updates!


7/30/08

Hiatus.

 

 

7/21/08

Hey guys, it's Andrea, updating from my dad's work computer. I'm at my beach house in the Outer Banks, and I'll be here for a week. I can't update, because I'll be at the beach, pool, etc. I promise a big update when I get back! <3

7/17/08

New site of the week and fifteen new icons :) Sorry for the lack of updates, we have been super busy! Keep up all the support!

7/13/08

Hey guys!! Just letting you know we're still alive! Haha :) We will add some content later this week.

7/5/08

Fifteen new icons, three new profiles, and a new sotw! I'll be at camp next week, and [D] is still in Portugal. Look for an update when I get back!

7/1/08

Happy July! Check out our temporary icon section, and read the top of the blog for more info!

6/30/08

Just got back from Boston, and [D] is still in Portugal! I will update soon, hopefully tomorrow after my babysitting job haha. Also, visit our new site of the week!

6/27/08

200 subscribers!!!!! Thanks guys! [Click] for a gift to our subbies. I made 33 new icons as a gift too, but somehow our icon section got deleted :( I will make a new section and upload them all as soon as I can! Thanks so much!

6/26/08

Only one more sub to go! Come on guys!

6/25/08

Check out our new sister, everydayrunway, and more icons coming soon, promise!

6/24/08

Another new sister <3

6/23/08

Nine new icons! Guess what? We're five subs away until our goal of 200! YAY!!!!!!! We love you guys <333

6/22/08

Two new sisters and new site of the week! Check them out =]

6/21/08

Only three new icons today :) Sorry for the lack of updates! Me and [D] have been having an awesome summer! Keep up the subs and comments, and we'll make a huge update! PS- New sister!

6/18/08 (by andrea)

Nine new icons :) A new profile too! A little low on subs and comments though...

6/17/08

Six new assorted icons added by me, Andrea :) Sorry for no update yesterday, I had a huge math final to study for! Hopefully I did well!

6/15/08

Three new Juno icons :)

6/14/08

Guess who's back? That's right! It's [D], coming back from my short hiatus. Keep up the subs and enjoy my 1 new profile =]

6/13/08

Six new icons of Lauren Conrad! Please vote on the poll on the bottom of the weblog!

6/12/08

New main thanks to graphicfetish! Expect new banners soon :) Also, I answered an advice question. PS- Since when did fashionkiss shut down???

6/11/08

Adding three new icons! I know it's a small update, but I don't have a lot of free time! Expect a huge update when school lets out :)

6/10/08

I am seriously thinking about quitting.

6/4/08

Like I said before, I've been really busy with school, since I'm in the last couple of weeks, and I have to concentrate on finals and other annoying tests. I won't be updating this site until at least June 20th, however, I will try to answer everyone's comments :)

6/2/08

New sotw! Sorry for the lack of updates, I've been busy, but once school lets out I'll be able to post a lot more!

5/30/08

Two advice questions answered today!

5/29/08

Sorry guys! I haven't updated in a couple of days because my computer had almost 15 viruses :( I think there are only a couple left, and my dad should be able to fix them soon!

 

5/26/08

Check out our new site of the week! More later :)

5/25/08

Thirty nine new icons today of Ashley Tisdale! I felt bad because I haven't updated in a long time!

5/24/08

I created a personal [clicksite for myself, so come check it out if you want :) More later!

5/23/08

Twelve new icons, and more to come :) Sorry if updates seem a little slow, my site partner went on hiatus until June =( But I, [A] am still here!

5/22/08

Hey guys, sorry, we've been sucking with updates lately. I, [A] missed a week of school and am trying to make it all up! We promise a big update over the weekend, though!

5/20/08

Answered two advice questions today, but one's in a private message so you can't see it :) Added six new icons :)

5/19/08

We moved all of our content back to our main page! You like??

5/18/08

We're thinking of moving our content back to or main site....what do you guys think? Leave thoughts in your comments please :)

5/17/08

Three new aim profiles added :) Go to sugarcoated_profiles!

5/16/08

Advice given today and we changed the song :) We will have a huge update when we get our new layout, with tons of new icons and profiles!

5/15/08

Check out our new sotw! We changed it so we could help them reach their goals!

5/14/08

Please make sure to read our new rules. They're very simple! Keep up the commenting :)

5/1308

One new profile and fifteen new icons! Also, there are new banners up for our site, and two requests are being done!

5/12/08

Small revamp, but only for today! We are putting all of our content on seperate sites, so our main is less cluttered :)

5/11/08

Still working out everything with the new layout! Fixed the layout three new icons, and one new profile!

5/10/08

Three new profiles, and twelve icons added :) We're up to 287 icons! We're experimenting with this layout, so please ignore the uglyness for now! We're making new banners and modules, etc. Thanks for your patience :)

5/8/08

Three new icons today and two new profiles! Very slow on comments, though :(

5/7/08

Subs are getting a bit better, but we need you to keep them up (: Two new profiles added today.

5/508

Hey guys, I've noticed that we've been really low on comments and subs lately. The more you comment and subscribe, the more updates! Also, check out our new SOTW!

5/3/08

Woah it's May already! Twelve icons addded, and a new song. You'll notice that you can now pause the song if you want, just look to the bottom of our page :)

4/30/08

Three new profiles and a code for an existing one :) Also, we added how to subscribe to our FAQ. I put up a preview for twelve new icons. I will post them individually once we get five more subscribers!

4/28/08

Six new icons added today :]

4/27/08

Heyy guys! Sorry for the lack of updates! Like I said, I was away all weekend. Make sure to check out our new site of the week!

4/24/08

I, [A] am going to be away all weekend. Hopefully, [D] will find the time to update! Thanks for your patience! :)

4/21/08

If you've noticed, we changed our song to Ocean Avenue by Yellowcard. Also, check out our site of the week :) We added a new profile and six new icons! Make sure to visit our contest site, sugarcoated_contests!

4/20/08

A set of requested graphics done today by [D]. New profiles in a bit? Probably. Expect more updates soon. I, D have a party in a bit, but I'll do my best!

4/19/08

If you've noticed, we changed our song to Emergency by Paramore :) Nine new icons added, and some profiles to come!

4/17/08

Finally, a real update for you :) I added six new icons, and a of a profile. We're a little slow on subs and comments, guys! Please drop a comment or sub if you think our site deserves it :)

4/16/08

Heyy guys, just a reminder. Please stop posting ads on our site! If you're going to post an ad, please at least subscribe first!

4/15/08

An extremely long advice question answered today! Sorry we haven't added any profiles or icons lately, we've just been really busy with everything! We promise we'll add stuff very soon; hopefully tomorrow! Thanks for your patience :)

4/14/08

A request done today :) Also, some advice given! Keep up the subs and comments <3

4/13/07

[[Later]]

Another jocker?!?!?! WTF? We work hard  on our site! If anyone would like to spam them, please feel free!

4/13/08

A fourth profile added today (:

Keep up the comments and subs! More content will be on it's way!

Also:: Check out the new SOTW...you definitely want to see this one (:

4/12/08-4/13/08 (Midnight)

Three new profiles added as well as two jockers. ):

4/10/08

Three new profiles added today, and hopefully more to come!

4/9/08

One hundred subs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY! Haha =] Thanks everyone for all your subbing, commenting, and overall support! You know what this means! Tonight, our brand-new contest site will open! Our first contest is the Spring Fever Contest. You can now start applying at sugarcoated_contests! BIG update coming to thank all of you guys! Sorry; we're just really busy today =] Thanks again! You guys rockkk <3

4/7/08

Six new icons today =] Only one more subber until we reach our goal of 100 subscribers! You're almost there!

4/6/08

A new site of the week for you ladies to visit! Six new icons today, and we added some fades from our old site! There are 62 in total!

4/5/08

Today, we added a whole new section for our old profiles! There are over forty profiles, but we have to fix up all of the profiles =] Also we added eleven new icons!

4/4/08

Hey guys (: The codes are up for 5 profiles that [A] made as well as the code for a new one that I, [D] just added! Also, six new icons today! Keep up the subs! 4 more and we'll start our first contest! Have an idea of what you want to see in future contests? Layouts? Profiles? Let us know in a comment on sugarcoated_contests!

4/3/08

Hii everyone! HUGE Anouncement! We have created a contest site! Don't worry, we will definitely still update sugar&spice =] Please go and visit sugarcoated_contests right now! You won't be disappionted!

4/1/08

Our first Site of the Week today! We are also working on our contest site, sugarcoated_contests !

3/31/08

Six new icons today and a new profile! More to come, && 10 more subscribers to go!

3/30/08

Fourteen new icons today! Also we added three new profiles (: Please keep up the subscribing and commenting!

3/29/08
Six new icons today! Make sure to check out our sisters new and improved site:
www.xanga.com/glitteratirush

3/28/08
[[Later]]

New layout today! [And new banners too!] Keep up for 100 subbers!

3/28/08

Added another set of banners under the graphics section in the requests. I [D] am sorry I haven't gotten to add the profile, I'm finishing up some school work. I'll get to it as soon as I finish though --> Promise!

3/27/08

A huge request done todaytwo sets of banners! Also, a new profile to be added soon =]

3/26/08

Six new icons added today, hope you enjoy =]

3/24/08

Twelve new icons added, and more to come! Almost at 100 subs =] Also, I [A] added two new profiles <3

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:

We would like to warn everyone about 2 sites that have done horrible things to other sites! Please feel free to spam them: www.xanga.com/dtdx3_408 and www.xanga.com/sheersecretsx Sadly, Xanga isn't all great people. Thanks for your patience, and hopefully they will shut down!

3/22/08

Keep up the commenting and subbing! We're on our way to 100 subbers! Eighteen new icons added today, and a new sister! Check out: glitteratirush! Keep subbing; a reward's on its way! =]

3/21/08

87 subs (: Only a few more until we meet our goal and another reward comes your way :].

We are also trying to save up to buy premuim with our credits (: Please comment to help us, and/or leave minis!

We are also looking for a good layout making guide (: We already have some ideas for some and a few made/outlined on powerpoint.

Lastly, I, [D] will be away until Tuesday, although I'm sure [A] will still update [:

Continue to support us!

3/20/8

A new profile and six new icons today! Happy Spring Break everyone =]

3/19/08

Two new profiles for you today (:

Thanks for all the comments! Keep them up and remember to subscribe!

3/17/08

2 new profiles

Happy St. Patrick's Day everyone! Only a small update today; we're out  celebrating =]

3/16/08

We added a sisters section in addition to our VIPs. If we want you as a V.I.P, we will ask, so please don't ask. But sisters are unlimited! Just ask =]

3/14/08

Lots of new icons today; too many to count! That's a good thing ;] A little low on subs and comments....Also check out our new profile picture!

3/12/08

2 new profiles up (: [A] told you about our goal :] Keep up the subs and more updates, surprises and more will be coming your way =] Also, we just added nine new icons, all Jennifers! Jennifer Anniston, Garder, and Love Hewitt <3

3/11/08

We have a new goal for all of you awesome people =] By the end of March, we're trying to get 100 subscribers. Please help by telling your friends on xanga to sub! Thanks a lot everyone! :)

3/10/08

We have the icon request up on iconator and the link posted under pickups (:

[[Later - 3/8/08]]

Totals added:

2 profiles
9 Icons
All Banners
2 Requests-please subscribe to request!!

3/8/08

Request w/ link will be up tonight
And two new profiles for you (: We also added all new banners, yay!

Keep subbing and commenting!

3/6/08

A request done ---> Will be approved and up in two days (:

Keep subscribing and commenting! We're running low..

3/5/08

A little low on the comments.

We won second place in the contest...not what we wanted, but thanks to all the people that actually voted! If we ever join another contest, please vote more :P

3/1/08

Two new profiles (:

The picture previews aren't working for a few of our newest, but we will try to get them up soon (:

2/28/08

One new profile for you guys (:

We appreciate the comments! Make sure to subscribe too!

2/26/08

Fifteen new icons for you today! [A]] is having a sick day =[

2/25/08

Eighteen new icons today!!! Also, we want to inform you that we got a new layout thanks to Downtown Designs! Please keep voting for us at bella_contests! 58 subbers = keep up the good work =]

2/24/08
A new advice question answered, and 2 new profiles =]

2/23/08

Two sets of icons added so far today and a request done; more to come =] Please keep voting for us @ bella_contests ! Enjoy, keep up the subbing and commenting! PS- We're having some technical problems with our profiles. We are trying to fix this problem, so please be patient =]

2/22/08

50 SUBBERS EVERYONE!!!!!!! HUGE UPDATE TODAY TO CELEBRATE OUR GOAL ACHIEVED!!!! 5 new profiles and 3 sets of icons are being added as our big update! Also, to top it all off, it's a snow day :) As we promised, we are giving you guys a HUGE prize for all your wonderful comments and subscribing. We are opening a requests section! Congratulations everyone and thanks so much for helping us reach our goal. Now, if we reach 100 subbers by the end of March.....

2/21/08

3 new wonderfuly profiles made my A! I [D] Have gotten up the codes for all of them (:

2/20/08
One new pretty profile today, made by A, dedicated to D (:

[[Last one]]

We've gotten up 7 profiles (one for each vote) as well as an icon set today.

We NEED more votes though! Please make sure to (:

[[Again]]

Total of 6 profiles added plus one icon set (3 icons) (:
We're working on some more pros. Also, please keep voting for us! We have a big competitor, who is beating us so far! Please help us change that!

((Later))

One beautiful new pro added by A (:, I'm (D) getting the code now and working on another for you! Keep up the votes! Just click the above banner and say you vote for A&D, #6 (:

Sub below as well :] 

2/18/08
((Later))

Lots of new voters-thanks guys! We will make profiles for all of our lovely voters by the end of today! Thanks for all of your support, and if you haven't voted yet, please do =]

2/18/08

Voting has started at www.xanga.com/bella_contests!

Be sure to vote for us!
For every vote we will add a new profile and post the voter's site up here. New content AND publicity for your site....sounds worth it, right?

[[Later]]

2 new profiles =] Make sure to vote starting tomorrow at www.xanga.com/bella_contests

2/17/08

A new profile for you :)

2/17/08

Keep subbing and vote for us at www.xanga.com/bella_constests

We've added 3 icons in a set for you! Also, an extremely long advice question answered today =] Thanks so much for all of your patience and support, especially with our advice column. Keeps the questions coming!

2/16/08

Keep up the subs! They're great modivation! Two new profiles for you today =]

2/14/08
((Even Later))

I've added a third porfile for today :) Keep up the subscriptions! You'll be in for a VERY special surprise if you can get us to 50 by the end of the month. We can guarantee that you'll like it!

2/14/08
((Later))

Another new profile =]

2/14/08

We've got another new profile for you and the code for the profile [A] added yesterday is up =] Stay tuned for more!

Also, check out our subscribe button below or the link at the top of the page. Please take just one second to click on it and subscribe to us!

2/13/08

A new profile today for Valentine's Day tomorrow! Hope you guys have tons of fun, whether it's friends or guys!

2/9/08

Added one new profile.

Things have been going slow around here recently. But heres the bottom line: We're not going to update with lots if we're not going to get anything in return! Please, Please, Please, comment and subscribe!

2/8/08
Phew! REALLY long advice question today. Wepromise to add some profiles this weekend 'cus we've been slacking! Keep up the subbing guys!

2/6/08
[[Later]]

We've added 6 more icons for you, in two sets. Check them out! We've also englared all of our icons, so that you can see them a bit better =]

We appreciate all of the advice requests and are always happy to do them, but please make sure to subscribe first :)

2/6/08
It's February and time for more updates!! Sorry that there's been a little rut, but we're getting things back in motion. We've answered another advice question today, and hope to add some profiles and icons by the weeked. BIG NEWS: One of our sisters has entered a contest, and we would like you to vote for them! You can vote once a day, every day until the contest ends on February 15! Click this link to vote, and vote for #8: AHMAZINGPROZX3!

http://www.xanga.com/FabCouture_Contests

1/31/08

One new profile today :)

1/29/08

Hey guys, sorry for the smaller updates. As [A] has said before, the two of us are VERY busy and as everyone will learn if they haven't already, xanga is not a top priority.

One new profile today. [A] also added some other profiles and icons earlier in the week. I've [D] have gotten all the codes up. Make sure to check all of them out.

Only one new subscriber? Get us up to 50 by the end of February and there will be a big update =]

1/28/08

Hey guys, so sorry for all the profiles without codes. As (A) said, I (D) have been very busy. I've got some down time right now though and I'm going to try my best to get some of the codes up. Thanks for your patience!

1/26/08
((Later))
Two new beautiful profiles added today. A new set of icons too! Also guys, sorry that we have so many profiles without codes! [A] which is me, adds profiles a lot, and I don't have AIM 5.9, so I can't make codes. That's where [D] comes in, and she is busy, but trying her best. No comments or subs lately...

1/26/08
Finishing up our advice; look forward to some new aim profiles/icons this weekend!

1/24/08
Working on advice. This is going to take awhile, so no new aim stuff today, sorry guys!

1/23/08
Two new profiles added today and a set of icons. In case you didn't know, our icons are grouped in sets of three, which usually all have to do with the same theme. For example, disney movies, love, shoes, etc. Keep up the comments and subs!

1/22/08
((Later))
We're going to try and get some more updates for you...make sure to comment and subscribe!
Also, some exciting news for everyone who wants to see a certain something on the site - we will be opening a requests section at the end of this week if we get enough subs and comments. Your doing great so far!
We'll let you know the exact ammount later tonight or tomorrow, but in the meantime - Comment and Subscribe!

1/22/08:
A couple of profiles added today; more to come. Sorry guys, this is a busy day :]

1/21/08
We need more comments and subs, please ;]
So far we've added 5 profiles and 12 icons. We are also putting up more.

1/20/08
Total things added today:
profiles
22 icons
FAQ/Advice section

1/20/08
((Later))
We've got 2 more profiles. Check out all the new icons as well.

Let us know what you think so far. Do you like the 5.9 and 6.0 options? Do you think something could be easier? Do you want an aways section? Or requests? We want to know!

1/20/08
We appreciate all the comments and are doing our best to get everything running. MANY new icons for you and 3 profiles. We have more to add and it should be up soon
We appreciate all the new comments! Please be sure to also subscribe :)
We also added an advice section where you can ask us ANYTHING. Relationship problems, to homework, to xanga, we're happy to help.


 
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Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Icons
so here's the deal: when we finally got 200 subscribers, i sat around practically all morning making new icons for you guys. and then when i came to upload them, i saw that somehow, our entire icon section got deleted! so here are a preview of our new icons. i'll upload and re-do the icon section when i have time. until then, enjoy these! they took me awhile :)

 

summer_1 summer_2 summer_3
beach_1 beach_2 beach_3 beauty rush_1 Beauty Rush_2 beauty rush_3
ashley olsen_1 ashley olsen_2 ashley olsen_3
 dress_1 dress_2dress_3
carmen_1 carmen_2 carmen_3 vanessa hudgens_1 vanessa hudgens_2 vanessa hudgens_3
miley cyrus_1 miley cyrus_2 miley cyrus_3
 coach_1 coach_2 coach_3
ashlee_1ashlee_2 ashlee_3
camp rock_1 camp rock_2 camp rock_3
taylor swift_1 taylor swift_2 taylor swift_3
lohan_7 lohan_8 lohan_9
nyc_1 nyc_3 nyc_2


Wednesday, May 21, 2008

 Profiles

Total: 88

New: 3

**Please note: The 6.0 profiles look weird on here (large, odd colors/fonts), but if you copy and paste them into AIM, all of them WILL work and look just like in the picture above it  =]

#1:
Life is a Highway 
6.0

LiFe iS a HiGHwAY
I wanna ride it...
--------> all night long.

code:

#2
Peter Pan

6.0

    never say goodbye
      because goodbye means going away,
         and going away means
forgetting
.
                                     -peter pan

code:

*Please note:
This profile contains fonts that may
not have come on your computer
You can download them at
www.dafont.com
The tont is as followed:
Burst my bubble

#3:
Dreams

6.0

x      I wish dreams were like wishes,     x
o             and wishes came true,           o
x             cause in my dreams               x
o              I'm always with you.            o

code:

#4:
Jump to the Rhythmn
6.0

&&Youmakemewanna
                                jump to the rhythm
                        &&
sail to the music
                                          I love youa©

code:

#5:
Out Loud

6.0

&& atleast out loud
I w o n t s a y i m i n l o v e

code:

#6:
Quite Enough
6.0

 && I want to be beautiful, make you stand in awe;
 Have you look
inside my heart and be amazed;
 I want to
hear you say who i am is quite enough.

code:

*Please note:
This profile contains fonts that may
not have come on your computer
You can download them at
www.dafont.com
They are (in order) as followed:
(&&) You are what you eat
(beautiful) Staccato222 BT
(inside my heart) Mia's Scribblings ~
(hear you say) Tuna and Hot Dogs on Rye

#7:
Love everyone dreams of
6.0

                   It's the kind                             of relationship
              where they have                  a secret
handshake,
  
          and she begs him to         watch Disney movies with
           her, while he begs her to watch scary movies instead.

           Its where they laugh and joke all the time, but they're

           serious when it's time to be serious. It's where neither
 
     lOVe THaT eVerYONe DreaMS
Of
           of them have to say "I love you" because they know

               with all their hearts that they love each other. Its

                   where theycan mess around on her couch,

                        and then she'll laugh at him when he
 
                              tries not to look guilty in front of
                                      her dad. It's the kind of

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#8:
Hurts the most
6.0

What Hurts the Most
is being so close
and
having so much to say
and watching you
walk away
and never knowing
what could have
been
and not seeing that loving you
is what I was
trying to do
-Rascall Flats ©

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#9:
Happy ending

6.0

maybe it's not about the HaPPY enDinG,
maybe it's about the
STorY.

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#10:
Another you
6.0

Another month, Another year.
Another smile, Another tear.
Another winter, summer too.
but there will
never be

Another You

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#11:
Worth fighting for
6.0

  the confusion & the fear is there to  
remind you that, somewhere out there
there's something better. something 
   That's worth fighting for   

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#12:

Old Navy
6.0

Hollister X
Abercrombie X
American Eagle X

OLD NAVY=Love
©


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#13:
Crush 

6.0

&& It's NOT...
just a Crushj

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#14:
People Lie

6.0

People say I gossip behind people's backs...
People say I wear trashy
clothes...
People say I am a boyfriend stealer...
              I say...
                         
People L.I.E.


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#15:
Friend's Name

6.0

     Friend's Name
Friend's
Name
     Friend's Name

________________
                  Life             

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16:

When I'me gone

6.0

When I'm gone just carry on, don't mourn
Rejoice every time you hear the sound of my voice
Just know that I'm looking down at you, smiling
And I didn't feel a thing, so baby don't feel no pain just....

Smile back_xO


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#17:

Bench Love

6.0

Love is what makes two people sit in the middle of a bench©
When there is plenty of room on...
©
                        xxxxxxxxxx
                        Both ends.

                      
xxxxxxxxxx

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#18:

A thousand Miles

6.0

                    A thousand miles seems pretty far                      ©
             But they've got planes and trains and cars             ©

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#19:
Thunder
6.0

                  Your voice was the soundtrack of my summer                 
                       Do you know you're unlike any other?
                      
                       You'll always be my thunder, and I said                      
                    Your eyes are the brightest of all the colors                    
                            I don't wanna ever love another                            
                                You'll always be my thunder                              
                                      So bring on the rain
                                    
&&BringontheThunder©©

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#20:
Partners in crime
6.0

        always t o g e t h e r

           we're one of a kind 

         s i s t e r s at heart
&& Partners in Crime

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#21:

V-Day

6.0

&& Screw the guys!
My girls are the shizz
on
eValentine's Daya

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#22:

 True Friend

6.0

  We sign our cards and letters -·´¯--.,_,.·´¯->> BFF
    You have a million
ways to make me l a u g h
Yo
ure TrUe FrienD

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#23:
Fly
6.0

x I'm at this point in my life x
o where I'm just daring for
o
x someone to push me off  x
o a cliff, just to see if I can
  o
    Fly
           *  *  *  *  *  *  *          

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#24:
Around the coner
6.0

 AroundtheCorner
                        There may wait
            A new road or a secret gate

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#25:

Doesn't Hurt
6.0

  Face down in the dirt
  she said this doesn't
    hurt

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#26:
All she learned
6.0

&& aLL sHe LeaRneD

FRom You was THaT

              promises can be broken
           "forever" is only an instant
        broken hearts are not easily fixed
          love is not like in the movies
&& happily ever-after are only in fairytale endings

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#27:
Tonight
6.0

     Tonight
I've fallen and I can't get up
  I need your loving hands
   to come and pick me up

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#28:
Story
6.0

MUSIC WAS HER LIFE
                         AND THE LYRICS
                WERE HER
              STOrY

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#29:
Oh them
6.0

    Oh, them?
i'D Lie For THem, crY For THem
anD sTraiGHT uP Die For THem

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#30

Party all night

6.0

©When the sun don't shine
and nothing seems to go right,

just let go...
©
& Party all night!

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#31:
Scared
6.0

       I'm not scared of heights.I 'm afraid of falling.      
 I'm not scared of the dark. I'm scared of whats in it.
I'm not afraid to love. I'm scared of not being loved
             back

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#32:

dictionary

6.0

I agree with the dictionary...
¹ Barbies before kens,
² Friends before guys, and
³ Family before everything else

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#33:

Crushcrushcrush

6.0

they taped over your
mouth and
scribbled

out the truth

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*Please note:
This profile contains a font that may
not have come on your computer
You can download it at
www.dafont.com
It is as followed (used for scribbled):
You are what you eat

#34:

atmosphere

6.0

             LiKe LosT BaLLoons             
      LeTs DisaPPear inTo TH
e     
aTmOsPHere

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#35:

Hate that I love you

6.0

And I hate how much I love you boy
I can't stand how much I need you   
And I hate how much I love you boy
But I hate that I love you so                
and i hate that I love you so

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#36:

 Andrea's Pro

6.0

In cards and flowers
on your window,
Your friends all plead for you to stay,
Sometimes beginnings
aren't so simple,
Sometimes
good bye's
The only way

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#37:

Scream

6.0

©SOMETIMES YOU WANNA©
   ------>SCREAM and just let go!

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#38:

Andrea's second profile

6.0

Smootas silk;;
---->  When you want to make things right<----
             I guess you could say....

[  Y o u ' r e  m y  t y p e  o f  g u y  ]

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#39:

She's the One

6.0

SHE'S THE ONE


w e  a l l  w a n t  t o  c o p y ]

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#40

Love Song

6.0

i'm not gonna write you a love sOng

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#41:

great escape
6.0

Throw it away, forget yesterday
          we'll make
        
  thegreatescape

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#42:

Sticking with
6.0

                         the best        thing you
                    
can do is find a person who 
               loves
you for exactly
what you are.
              good mood,
bad mood, ugly, pretty
,
               what you have. the right person
is
               
still
gonna think the sun shines out
                    of your ass. thats the kind
of
PersOn wOrTH sTicKinG wiTH

code:


#43

I Don't Know Why

6.0

Idon't knowwhy
I can't keep my eyes off of you©

code:


#44:

What It Could Be

6.0

&& take a chance because you never know
what could be..

code:


#45:
somebody who cares
6.0

                        so lonely inside  
                      so busy out there
 
               && a l l 
you wanted was
somebody who cares

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#46:

Last Week

6.0

&& On your calendar of events,
I'M LAST WEEK

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#47:
Hurts the most
6.0

      , ----.           , ----.
    .'          '.    . '           '.
     '.            '.'             .'

&& what hurts´¯->
the most
was being
-··´¯->>
so close
And having so much to say
x3
And watching
you walk away
                 '.      . '
                    ' . '

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#48:
I hope you dance
6.0

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
    Whenever one door closes I hope one more
opens,
     Promise me that you'll give faith
a fighting chance,
    And when you get the
choice to sit it out or
dance.
           I hope you dance

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#49:
Big World

6.0

   There's     a    _.·´¯`·×»    big     world     out      there  
Bigger  than  prom + [Bigger]  than  high  school
 ++ it won't -m a t t e r- if you were the prom queen
  Or     the     quarterback    of     the     football    team
  Or  the  biggest  [nerd].  Find  out   who  you  are.  
___ .·´¯`·×»   And    try    not   to   be   afraid   of   it

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#50:
irish
6.0

Kiss Mi'm iRisH

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#51:
a little truth
6.0

there's a little t r u t h in every JK.
there's a little c u r i o s i t y in every J
W.
there's a little k n o w l e d g e in every IDK
.
there's a little e m o t i o n in every IDC.

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#52:

Great Heartbreak

6.0

In every life there will be
one great love and one
great heartbreak

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#53:
Toy Story

6.0

Anytime you need a friend
i will be here. you'll never
be alone again, so don't you
fear. even if you're miles awa
y
i'm by your side. so don't you
ever be lonely; it'll be alright
-Toy Story ©

code:

#54
Crazy Friends

6.0

You'reTheTypeOfPerson
who's crazy enough to be friends with me


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#55
I'm not random

6.0

I'mnotrandom
I just have many thoughts...

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#56

Girls will be girls

6.0

GiRLS WiLL BE GiRLS


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 #57

Notebook

6.0

It's so ten years old, but who
can resist writing our initials on my
Notebook?

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#58:
Alive
6.0

        Cause             I've seen
      love die       way too many

   times; When  it deserved to be

     alive I've seen you cry way
         too many times ; When

              you deserved to

             
be alive

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#59:
Tangled

6.0

Tangled]
in her spider web of lies.


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#60:
Priceless

6.0

 

Cheesy Valentine cards: $5

Red Roses: $13

Box of Chocolates: $20

True Love A Hott Guy- Priceles


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#61:
Chances Are

6.0

 

Chances  Are...

When we're thirty, it won't matter who wore the right shoes or who was cheer captian. The nerds will be Bill Gates's, the drama geeks will be on Broadway, and the popular girls? They'll be working at Stop & Shop.


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#62:

When I hear

my favorite song

I know that we belong, you are the music in me
It's living in all of us, and it's brought us here because
You are the music in me.

6.0

When I hear
my favorite song

I know that we belong, you are the music in me
It's living in all of us, and it's brought us here because
You are the music in me.


code:
 

#63:
already too late

6.0

                 it's not easy, is it? fighting for something you
                 could have had  & wondering if maybe it's
ALL READY TOO LATE


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#64:
unwritten
6.0

my life is a storybook, keeping me on the [edge]
of my seat, never knowing what will happen next.
But
[every] story has an ending and the sequel is
       uNwriTTeN

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#65:
Go Home
6.0

And there’s never any rain, when you want it
A  hollow  little  game,  and   you’ve   won   it
Looking  for  a  thrill  but  you’ve  done  it  all
So  long,   put   your   blue   jeans   back  on
      aeGirl Go Homeae

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#66:
Girl next door
6.0

                                                                            
  She is the prom queen;  I'm in the marching  band
 
  She is a [ cheerleader ];  I'm sitting in the  stands
 
  She  gets  the top bunk;  I'm sleeping
on the  floor  
  She's Miss America and  I'm just the girl next  door  
 
oh and I'm jsut the girl next door
  
                                                                           

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#67

Never Forget
6.0  

You're her go to guy
the one that she steals the hoodie from when she's cold
the one that she lays her head on
when she's tired, and the one that she'll

(_.·´¯`·×»never forget

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#68
Live Laugh Love

6.0
  

Live x Laugh Love
-----> It’s cheesy, but... I live by it

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#69:
summer
6.0

S2U0M0M8E!R

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#70
To see the Rainbow

6.0

ToSeeTheRainbow
at the end we have to watch the rain pour
make it through the surges of lightning
not worry when we hear the claps of thunder

we can't hide under the bed and play pretend

We have to brave the storm.


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#71
Fabulous

6.0

Fabulous©
definition: you're looking at her profile©


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#72:
unspoken

6.0

  Getting    up.    Getting     dressed.    Living 
with  this  [ re g r e t ], but  I  know
  if  I  could
x3_____ do it  over, I would
trade. Give
away
all the words  that I saved in my [ h e a r t]  x3
That I left unspoken


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#73:

Boys are like


6.0

Boys are like potato chips.  
you can never have just one.   


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#74:

Live your Life

6.0

Live Your Life Crazy


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#75:

Stole My Heart

6.0

Someone call thPolice 
ae  that boy stole my heart ae

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#76:

Someone Call a Doctor

6.0

SOMEONE CALL A DOCTOR
that boy broke my heart

©©©©hhh©©©©

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#77:

Sometimes You Feel

6.0

Sometimes you  feel ©©©
             ü alone in the world 


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#78:

Different Tale
6.0

&& then she smiled
but her eyes told
||a different||
t a l e B


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#79:
Rockstar

6.0

I might even be a
B Rockstar B

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#80:

Lifes all about taking chances
It’s about doing something everyone said you couldn’t
It’s about acting silly, not caring what other people think
It’s about learning to love what you have.....
©

6.0

Lifes all about taking chances
It’s about doing something everyone said you couldn’t
It’s about acting silly, not caring what other people think
It’s about learning to love what you have.....
©


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#81:

Lost at Sea

6.0

Your eyes are as blue as the
Atlantic Ocean, and baby
I'm lost at se

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#82:

Bullseye

6.0

You hit the bullseye baby
Now I'm into you crazy
Don't know how you got me started
HIT! You hit the bullseye.   

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#83:
Life is Short

6.0

LIFEISSHORT

So live for the moments that take your breath away
laugh at things that really aren't funny 
&& don't be afriad to 
love.


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#84:
here's to the night

6.0

Here's a toast to all  those  who  hear  me [all too well];
______x3  here's  to  the  [ n i g h t s]   we   felt  alive ;
here's  to  the  t e a r s ]   you   knew   you'd   cry ;
-·´¯--.,_,.·´¯->> </3   here's    to   [g o o d b y e]  ;
 Tomorrow'sGonnacomeToosoon


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#85:

No One

6.0

♥She’s fifteen and her lips are still unkissed, her hands are still unheld and no guy has ever told her he loved her and meant it. She’s beautiful, but she’s losing confidence because no guy has ever taken the time to tell her♥


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#86:

Even though
6.0

& even though
you hurt me so many times, lied to me,
made promises and broke them and
put me through a [[ lot of pain ]], i'd go through
all of it again just to have you really love me,
even if it was for just one minute, because
i love more than you ever thought possible...

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#87:

Love

6.0

LOVE IS WHEN YOU CAN'T EXPLAINar
   what you like about him

code:

#88:

Degrassi

6.0

I know we can make it through
                      -Degrassi

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Ok i know that i'm an advice site but people who give advice sometimes need it to right? Now see the problem is that i like this boy and i flirt with him alot and send him pics and stuff. not bad pics but pic and he tells me im pretty and stuff and i think he likes me too. the catch is my bestfriend likes him and she knew him first and he told me he liked her a while a go and well when i told him that seph thought i was flirting with him because i sent him pictures he said well are you? and i said not really but it doesn't matter if im am stshe likes you so i have to stay away and he says no you don't ima free man and i said she'll hate me then he said ok.. and signed off. i really like him alot but i don't want my bestfriend to hate me. i talk to him like everyday and he always always everyday asks for new pics and says im pretty and stuff i really don't kow what to do. i'm so frustrated i could scream. so i have two questions; Should i tell him i like him? Should i tell her i like him?
 
First of all, of course advice sites need advice sometimes! Now onto your real  problem!
 
PART I
First of all, you need to tell your friend everything. It's going to be extremely hard, but you've got to get it off your chest and tell her. WARNING: Talk to her alone or else she might not be comfortable coping with your confession. Invite her to a sleepover. If that can't happen, plan a playdate when neither you nor her are busy. This way, she can't avoid you. You're probably thinking right now, "No way! I can't TELL her!" But believe us! The two people who run this site are best friends, and we went through the exact same thing. And hey, we're still best friends! But if you choose not to tell her, you will absolutley break down of guilt! I know it sounds harsh, but it's true. As D said: Boys will  come and go, but friends are forever. So to finish up the first part: There are many ways your friend could react. She could call you....bad names and storm off, be in denial, or worst of all, call off your friendship. If this happens, give her at least a week to heal her wounds and cope. If she never comes around, she just can't deal with it and isn't worth being friends with if she gets this worked up over a boy. But don't worry, there's still hope! If she's really your best friend, she'll understand. But remember, don't rub it in her face! Even if she says she understands, she still needs time to deal.
 
PART II
Confronting the boy. Wait at least one or two weeks before confronting the boy. Even if your friend says she understands, give her some time. This will also show that you're careful of your actions. So this is the hard part. What you need to do again is, get him alone. And no, we do NOT mean on IM or over the phone. You need to talk to him in person. If you keep depending on IM for answers, you'll never know what he's thinking. If you absolutley CANNOT get him alone, ask for a "private moment" when you're at school. Believe me, you don't want anyone to over hear this! So, once you get him alone, be honest. Tell him that you like him (I know, it seems hard, but don't try "dropping hints". Boys won't get it!). Apologize for being awkward about the whole best friend thing. But don't get too serious, or he'll want to run away! Just give him the facts, then say you have to go somewhere, like a meeting or to a class or something. Give him time to think this over. If he really likes you, he'll get back to you. If he doesn't, he'll probably try to avoid you. Just remember, if he really doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world! I know this is going to seem like a long time, but the maximum time it should take for him to get back to you is a month. During the waiting time, try to have normal conversations about classes, or events coming up. Being friends first is the best way to go. If he confronts you and tells you he likes you, hooray! If he doesn't, it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of fish in the sea =]
 
 
I'm not sure how to say this, but I like this guy name Nick, me and him been talking for like almost a month. He's a really nice person and I talked to him a lot and he always talk to me too. My friends know I like him and they always try to embarrass me to get his Iattention and they want me to say hi to him and I do, but sometimes he says hi to me first. And whenever I talk to him he always looks at me and just makes eye contact with me. One time, when I went to the wrestling match I saw him and I kept talking to him we always talk for quite a long time and my friend said she got sick of us flirting with each other. And then, another thing is that she said that he looked at me twice, which I didn't know at all. Right now, I don't know if he likes me or just likes me only as a friend. I'm always thinking that he only likes me as a friend, but my friends say that maybe he does. I highly doubt that he likes me, but I'm just guessing because I don't know, but I'm just saying that he only likes me as a friend. Can you help me if you can?
 
Ourr Advice
So, pretty much, here's the deal:
He probably likes you, but he's too shy to tell it to your face. He obviously likes to flirt && talk with you; so that's a good sign. It's too bad that your friend can't be happy for you, but that's her problem. Our advice would be to get things going! What you should do is invite him maybe on a "group date" with his and your friends. Maybe invite him to a movie or an upcoming dance at your school. Remember to tell us how it goes!!! Also, please subscribe!
 
 

Marielle, 15

I have this problem and I don't know what to do. Well, there's guy I've known since 7th grade, well, I was in 8th grade at that time, but yeah and now he's a freshman and I'm a sophomore. Anyways, on the first week of school, I saw him and I recognized him and asked him if he was in this class and said yes. I started talking to him and it was going along well. A long time ago, me and my friends were hanging out at the bowling alley once and I saw him and his brother there. I walked over to him and talked to him, so yeah. When he was about to leave and I was still talking to him, my friends saw me with him and there were like oooo. After that I went back to my friends and asked what was that about. My friend Beka said that he was really smiling and jumpy like he was all happy about it. When we went out of the bowling alley he looked at me. When they were squealing and thought we would look cute together, but I wondered if I do like him. I started liking him after that, not only because of all that thing in the bowling alley at all. It's like whenever I talked to him he'll either look at me and smile, he'll always do that whenever I talk to me and like one time I said hi to him and he looked at the ground and smiled. He was a very nice person to me and I liked it I talked to him a lot like almost everyday, but then things started to get really weird. When we talked for quite a long time, he told his friends that I was stalking him, even though I don't because I treat him as a friend like I always do to people. I stopped talking to him for about two months. After two months, during lunch at school, he waved hi to me and then after lunch he said hi to me. It was weird, though because we stopped talking. During indoor soccer season and I was playing against his team he will act like nothing had happened at all. Then, one month passed and I started talking to him again and it's like the same thing all over again, then after a few weeks. I don't know the reason because I couldn't understand him at all, but he said he doesn't want to talk to me no more and this was in December too. Now it's January, we never talk no more. I found out like last Sunday that he was talking to my friend since she said this to me, he was saying that I was getting him mad and I don't know how I made him mad or what. He's going to ignore me if I say hi, but not to my friend. I really miss him as a friend and I want to talk to him again, but then again, even if I did he'll just ignore me. I know I forgot to mention this earlier, but when he says he's not talking to me why does he look at me once in awhile, he even did that today during lunch and when he had break. It's been bugging me. It's been happening ever since December, even when he said he's not talking to me, and during indoor soccer season (by the way the season is over). Do you know why he's acting this way to me? Yesterday, he looked at me and when my friend and I were going to the lunch line, he was playing around with me, he just looked at me, and he kept doing that until him and his friends left the cafeteria to go play on the field to play football.  Can you tell me what to do? I want to to know ASAP! Please, help me!

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Okay, here's the deal. Don't think he's into you, and don't think he's not. There's no definite answer to this. It seems like he liked you at first, but then something weird must have happened to him. You can't be sure what it is, but he definitely changed. You say he'll talk to you, and you will be friends. But then all of a sudden he'll start telling lies to his friends and ignoring you. He might do this because: A-His friends make fun of him because they hate you or something weird like that or B-He thinks his mind games are some "cool" way of getting you to like him. You are just like one big game to him, which is sad. He doesn't care about your feelings at all, and is probably trying to impress his friends by emotionally abusing you. I know this sounds kind of scary, but in a way, he is emotionally abusing you. You may like being friends, but you can never trust him, because he will spontaneously start spreading rumors about you. Our advice would be to either confront him about his strange behavior or stop talking/trying to talk to him. He obviously has a problem and likes playing mind games with you. You should really just forget about you being friends, because the way you described it, it's not going to happen. I know all of this seems harsh or extreme, but it's the truth. Take a minute to think, "Do I like him?" and "As a friend, can I really trust him?" If both these answers are no's, just end it. Make him a part of the past. Good luck to you and nick and we hope everything works out in the end!

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I have two problems and i was hoping you could help :]. First, i like this boy who likes a girl.  She is dating my best friend [who is a guy] and i am happy for them. But the boy that i like REALLY likes the other girl.  I don't know what to do because i am confiding in him with all of my secrets and stuff that is really private that i havent even told to some of my friends.  I talk to him every night for at least two hours and when i tell him all this stuff, he is really supporive and sweet to me.  I start to think that he likes me and then he starts talking about the girl, which is the most frustrating thing in the world.  I'm not sure if he knows that i like him because although i haven't told him up front, i have been like dropping obvious hints and i want him to know, but i dont want to make things awkward or make things change.  So what should i do?

My second problem is about myself.  The things i have been telling this boy about were about things like eating. So i guess i should tell you upfront that i generally dont eat. I am always self contious and i always feel ugly, which is the main cause of me not eating.  I know its not good for me but i just cant stop depriving myself.  The boy i like knows i have this issue and he, of course, thinks i should stop but thinks i need a little help. Can you give me any? I want to feel great about myself and i dont know how. Please help me and thanks for your time.

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Problem #1:
So you like this guy...and he likes someone else. A sad classic. It's pretty much happened to everyone! (Yes, including us!) The sad thing is, he obviuosly likes this other girl. But it's great that you're friends. When he talks to you about her, he's not trying to make you jealous or anything, he genuinely wants you advice! That's so sweet! It's great that you both trust each other; it shows that you're true friends. But for right now, the relationship is going no farther than this. He may like this other girl right now, but he's not going to have a crush on her forever. Eventually, hopefully he'll see what a great girl you are, and maybe he'll start liking you! You never know ;) So for right now, be the best friend you can be, and it will all work out in the end. Who knows? Maybe even you will start liking some other guy!

Problem #2
This could be serious! You say you think you're ugly or fat, but chances are, you're just kidding yourself. It may sound stupid or cheesy, but we're being serious: You are beautiful. So wake up! Stop putting yourself down! Not eating is definitely not going to make you more beautiful. If you truly believe that your weight is an issue, there are more healthy, not to mention more efficient ways to help it. You may feel like by not eating, you'll get skinnier. Sure, maybe you'll lose some weight, but possibly at the cost of your life. Going on a diet is so much better than starving yourself. If you feel really pressured, talk to your parents. You may think you have nothing in common with them, but your mom and dad have probably gone through the same things! Aside from your weight, there are plenty of other things you can do to make yourself feel beautiful. Think of something you're really good at. It could be art, singing, dancing, reading, writing, a certain sport, it could even be volunteer work! Take that passion and do something with it. Join a club, or tryout for your school team. Help plan a school dance, or volunteer at your local soup kitchen or animal shelter. Helping other people makes you feel better about yourself! Put all these things together, and on top of all of that, do one more thing. Instead of standing in front of the mirror, picking out all your flaws, find something positive about yourself and say it out loud, every day. With all this positive energy, you'll start to feel great! We hope our advice helped a lot, and don't forget to comment us to tell us how it goes!

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hello there [:

would you mind helping me out please?

well. im in 8th grade. there is this one guy.. his name is kyle and he is younger then me, 7th grade, but he should ACCTULLY be up in 8th with me, so idk. its lame i know i know, i should be going for guys my age or older but idk there is something about him.

well. about kyle. plays football, baseball & he is captian of the 7th grade bball team and plays on 8th too. like every little 7th grade girl & a few 8th grade girls are all into him. well, lucky me, im pretty good friends with this amazeing kid. well, im 3ed in his myspace top 8 and like his bestfriend is 1 and then jenna, who he likes and im really good friends with but she has already made it clear to him she dosent like him. well, i always though that he was hot but untill this weekend i started to actully like the kid. now you have to understand that i havent been interested in anyone since my last relationship of like 6 mounths, that left me pretty torn up for a while.

friday night he invited me to his house with jenna and colin. so i went over and we watched a scary movie and played hide and go seek in the dark. colin was trying so so so hard to get me to make out with kyle because jenna and colin said that he was acting really wierd.

saturday i went to a big party that kyle was at, and like we were together most the time, but he wouldnt dance with me. he only watched me like grind with other people. i went back to my friend andreas house for night. and kyle got the idea of sneeking out and comeing to his house. but we never did, but i told andrea that i was interested in kyle and she asked him if had any feelings and he said nooooooo.

well sunday i was at my friend ethans house in the hot tub with him and kyle txtd me and asked if i wanted to do something tonight. so i got in the shower at ethans and got ready and then we decided we'd go to the movies. so me ethan brett and andrea got dropped off and we saw JUMPER. i sat next to kyle and like everyone kept bugging him about who he liked. at one point he told andrea that he like 2 people, jenna and an 8th grader that was at kara's party the night before. so we were like okey. the only 8th grade girls who went were me, andrea, emilly, erin & sammie. she guessed all of them accept me, and he said no to all of them. then brett talked to him and he ssaid everyones name agien adn then he asked if it was me. and brett said that he smiled and said 'hu-uh' and that it was obvieously me. but after that whenever we would ask him, he would say no one in 8th grade.

now today he asked if i was doing anything and if i wanted to hang but i said i couldent because no one was home and i had no ride. he told me to txt him if i found a way, but i never did.

but i have been thinking about him all day. and i cant seem to stop talking about him.

i want to let him in on how i feeel about him but i dont know how or what i should say. or if i should even say. or if i should even say it.. i dont want to ruin our friendship and make things wierd. i mean he did say that he had no feelings for me, but idk, i keep thinking that something between us could happen.

please please help me. this is driveing me crazy! oahh and im sorry this was so long!

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Haha yes it was very long! But that's okay, that's what we're here for =] So the deal is, he probably likes you! YAY! But he's wayy embarassed to tell you and your friends. This is partially because your lovely friends keep bothering him! Tell them to back off or he won't even bother to talk to you anymore. It sounds like the "I like two people" is a lie to cover up for him liking you. He could like someone else, but he's probably just faking you out. I know you don't want to screw up your friendship, but sweetie, it's already messed up as it is, lol. So, the deal is, you need to #1: Get your friends to back off!, and #2: Get your flirt on ;) If you want to ask him out (which you eventually should), you should get him in private. He's obviously shy about the whole relationship, so I would suggest you keep it on the DL. About your friend Jenna, he might have liked her, but believe me, if she doesn't like him back, they're not going anywhere. So, the main thing is, you gotta take a chance. If you keep having these weird/awkward group dates, nothing's going to happen. Try to go places with him alone, this way (hopefully), he'll be more open with you. And if for some CRAZY reason he doesn't like you :P, then it's okay. As I've said many times, there are other fish in the sea =] Just don't stress about this, and you'll be fine! Good luck, and please comment us to tell us how it goes!

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okay, so let me start out by saying that i have a boyfriend. and i love him very, very much. more than anything else in the world. but he recently broke his leg and has been out of school for the past week and a half. and we have a german exchange student and he's really really cute. so i have been like flirting with him. very obviously. a lot. and i know that i have been. i'll admit it. and now, people are starting to say that i shouldn't be doing these things. that i'm doing more than just flirting with him. and he's flirting back. and my best friend said that she thinks he likes me. and now he's in new york city. and i miss him. and i don't know what that means. he gave me his hoodie to borrow and i have been wearing it like every day. i don't know if it's just flirting anymore. or if it's more than that. that i might have feelings for him. i don't know what to do about it. and what do i do about my boyfriend? please help me. in any way you can.

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Okay;; heres the deal. Obviously, the exchange student likes you. Giving you his hoodie was a HUGE giveaway. And you mentioned that you miss him, and you like to flirt with him. This means, you like him too. I know how you feel, being guilty about liking another guy. But just think, he's an exchange student! He's not going to be here forever. Unless he likes you enough to stay ;]. But the main thing you have to do is choose. You can't be cheating on your boyfriend, and misleading this german guy. Eventually, one of them will find out, and you'll lose both of them. So you need to think for a little bit. Think of your boyfriend, and all of the great things he's done for you. You should also think about the things that aren't so great about him. Then think about this exchange student you obviously have a crush on. Think of all the good things about him, and yes, the cons. It may sound stupid, but it can help you decide you you want to be with. But the main thing is, you have to choose between them. YES, it'll be hard, but you have to do it. If all else fails, (even though it's cheesy) follow your heart <3

For  crankthattxo

Okay, you might remember me [I Wish I Was Her] and i have followed your advice. [[which was to keep a strong friendship between the guy i like even though he likes another girl.]]

But recently things have changed. He has started to tell me how much he trusts me and how much he likes talking to me. Does this mean anything? I still really like him but he is sending mixed signals. Along with getting closer to me, he is also getting closer to the girl that he told me he likes [who now broke up with her boyfriend]. Does he like me? Her? Both? Is that even possible? What do i do?

i wish i was her

Dear I wish I was her,
As we said before, his feelings might change. It's great that you followed our advice, and it sounds like it's working for you =] His feelings are mixed along with his signals. It seems as if he's confused whether he likes you or this other girl. What you should do is, still stay a friend, but start hinting that you want more! Don't flat out tell him that you like him though, or he'll feel weirded out. Just get your flirt on ;] but still stay his friend. Soon, he will decide which one of you he wants, and hopefully he will make the rhight choice: you!

For theycallmememex3x

okay here is my story, i need help!!!

there is this guy and he is in one of my classes (im in 10th grade)
and i had kinda had a crush on him for awhile. his name is *Joey*
the other day he texted me and i was shocked. honestly.
he said he thought i was hott and stuff and that he wants to hang out.
i agreed that it would be fun to hang out. we have been testing eachother for almost a week now.
and the other day he was like whats up and i was like nothing whats up with you.
then he was like ohh i was just thinking about what you would look like naked.
i was totally shocked, and he keeps telling me he is horney. im not really aure what to do.
i told myself about a month ago that i need to stop hooking up with guys (making out)
but then he comes along and just cause he is pretty popular and im not as popular i feel like i really want to hook up with him. i'm afraid he will make me go farther than i want to though.
i want to save myself. but i want more than just a hook up and i don't think that is what he wants.

im not sure what to do here. please help me.
should i hook up with him just to have fun?
or should i not and tell him what i want?

... i told him that im kinda scared because i few noths ago a senior wanted to hang out so i agreed and he got me really drunk and did stuff with me that i really regret. and now that senior is a complete bithc to me, i told joey and he was like im going to make sure that doesn't happen. he said he wont hurt me.


HELPPP!!! thanks! =]]

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First of all; ask yourself this: Do you really like him? Or is it becuase he's more popular? Be honest with yourself. It sounds like from the texts and his thoughts that he's not interested in a serious relationship, it's just a booty call. If you don't say anything to him, he'll probably just keep on using you. If you really like him (for HIM not just because of his social status), I would talk to him honestly, and tell him how you feel. If he genuinely likes you, he'll listen and change. But if you don't really like him, or he's not interested in you for you, then move on. He's obviously not worth your time. Good luck, and please comment and tell us how it goes!

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Heres my problem I hope you can help me out thanks

Loves confusing everyone knows that..So there was a guy we hung out once but I think I knew him from somewhere else but my past seems like a blurr sometimes. He was so nice to me he let me use his coat when it was cold out..he always smiles at me in the halls...he walks stops and I bump into him...he would walk beside me and talk to me more then his own friend. People told me they though he liked me. This happened in one day when my friend was asking him for a smoke then he just walked with us. The thing is I acted like I wasn't interested I was rude. And now a few months later I realize I do like him hes everything I want. The thing that keeps me hanging on is his smile in the halls. I wan't to talk to him get to know him..you know. But how can I do that when we don't talk, hes not in any of my clases. The only time I see him is at his locker and when he leaves to go home maybe then I can get the courage but what should I sais? Please Help.
 
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It sounds like he definitely liked you! All the telltale signs: he wants to talk to you, smiles, lends you his jacket, etc. But when you went on this walk with him, you probably sent the message pretty clear that you didn't like him. The truth is, he probably gave up on you, because he thought you weren't interested. It sucks that you have no classes with him, but there's still hope. First off, you should definitely start talking to him daily. Even if it's just stopping by at his locker and talking every once and awhile. Don't get too serious at first, just let him know that you don't want to lose touch. Hopefully, he hasn't truly moved on, and he'll appriciate you talking to him. If he's nice to you, and makes the effort to meet you (after a while), then that means he's still into you. If he starts freezing you out or avoiding you, then the harsh truth is that he's moved on. Like I said, just start slow for now, then hopefully things will heat up ;] Good luck with him!!! Make sure to comment us back to tell us how it goes :)
 
 
This letter of advice was wayyy too long to post here-lol, but here's your answer jenn :)
 
This other guy- you think you'll never get over him. But the truth is someday, maybe a long time from now, you'll get over him. It sounds like when you were first going out, he really loved you. But then he was feeling confused becasue he liked these other girls. After you broke up countless times, your relationship was too damaged to be fixed. Then he started using you- whenever he broke up with another girl, he said he loved you and got back together with you. He took advantage of you just because he knew you loved him so much. All along, he probably had feelings for you, but someone that really loves you doesn't break your heart a million times and throw you aside. Also, the rumors and stuff didn't help. He thought if you were talking about him, it would give him a reason to talk crap about you too. He probably used it as an excuse to break up with you. Even though he did all this stuff, he's not really that bad of a guy. I know he did all of this shit to you, but inside part of him will always have feelings for you. It's just that for a guy, serious relationships scare them, so they do stupid stuff. But the reality is, like I said before, this relationship is pretty much broken. It sounds like your new boyfriend treats you really well, and it also sounds like you like him a lot :) It will be a long and difficult proccess to get over your old boyfriend/best friend, but it will happen. Stay strong; and I garuntee you'll get through it <3
 
PS- Warning: your old boyfriend might be jealous, so beware of this jealousy- and don't let it get to you. Good luck!!!!! And please please please comment us to tell us how it goes!
 
 
 

okayy, so my problem is my boyfriend. yeah, i know i'm young and all, and my friend is always telling me that i'm not going to get married to this kid or anything, and i know it's true. but still..=]

alright, so my boyfriend is really popular, and his best friend is a girl [[KT]]. and i'm fine with that, i mean, i can't tell him not to be friends with her and i don't want to. but the big problem is them flirting constantly. i've talked to him about it and all, and he assures me they are only friends, and she has too. and i know they are.

but today it annoyed me a bit more than usual. KT asked me if i was going to a soc hop for one of the highschools in our town. i said no and asked if she was going. she said she was and she said that my boyfriend [[AS]] really wants me to. so i laughed and asked where he was. [[i forgot to mention, he wasn't at  school today and he wasn't on aim to talk to me.]] and here's was really irritated me: she said he was at home and she was on the phone with him.

now, AS has only called me once, out of the whole school year. he's told me himself that he calls KT all the time and they stay on the phone for hours. and then i thoughtt, what the heckk. he hasn't been at school, and of course i'd be wanting to talk to him, he knows that. so why didn't he call me instead of KT?.

i told one of my friends this and she said that's crazy and even if KT and AS are best friends he should be talking to me a lot more than he does&+whatnott.

soo..what do i do!?. please help!. thankss!.

x3--rockki

Dear Rockki,

Ah yes, the best girlfriend. It would be almost impossible not for you to get jealous of her! It sounds like they really are great friends, so that must be hard to deal with. The truth is, like they assured you, they probably are just friends. But his best friend might want to be a little more than just friends, and she's probably jealous of you, just like your jealous of her. There's a possibility that she even likes your boyfriend than more than a friend, like I said. But that doesn't mean he likes her back! He chose you, and not her, so that obviously means he likes you. I know it might annoy you that he talks to her all the time, but they're friends, and friends talk. For all you know, he could be asking for advice about you! But for now, een though it's going to be hard to hear this, you just have to let it go. They're friends, and probably going to stay that way for awhile. If you're jealous, try hanging out with your own friends! You would want him to act the same way if you had a best guy friend. For now, your boyfriend and his best friend are best friends. You've got to deal with it, no matter how hard it is. He's your boyfriend, and he obviously likes you. So think about that next time you're feeling a little jealous. If you really think that they are flirting, and it's bothering you a LOT, then you can always confront him about it. But for now, just let it go :)

How can you tell a guy when he likes you? I mean there's just one guy who's name is Daniel and I really like him. We were just talking during PE class one day and then all of a sudden we were being good friends. I talk to him a lot and he doesn't seem to mind at all because whenever I pass by him he'll say hi or I will and sometimes whenever I just say hey put my arm on his shoulder like an arm rest, he'll smile about it. Sometimes during PE I poke him and he'll just smile and then laugh. Another time in PE he kept looking at me and I didn't know why, but he always does. I gave him a note one day asking him if he wanted to hang out and he wrote back saying he couldn't because he was grounded and also he said maybe another time. My friend Reina said that it was a sign because she thinks I'm cool to hang out with, but she said she was no mind reader, so yeah. On i got a pocketful of sunshine on friday May 16 after school when I called his name he turned around and just was walking towards me because to talk. On i got a pocketful of sunshine on sunday I saw him he kept saying hi and even his (which is really weird), but yeah and when I talked to him he just kept on smiling and when he said bye. He waved and smiled at me, which I was really happy. Yeah, I do like him, but I'm like really scared on what would happen because the other guys I liked didn't work out very well and one of them I lost him as a friend and he never talked to me any more. I'm scared what would happen to him too I mean I don't want to lose him at all and I'm scared to be in a relationship with him too. He's such a sweet person and yeah and another reason I'm scared is because of today it seemed like he's been avoiding me or something like that I don't know, but yeah and after school everything seemed fine, but I'm not sure. Can you tell me what's going on and what to do? Thanks!

Crystal

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So, this guy is showing signs that he definitely. The smiling, the waving, the talking, etc. The reason he's avoiding you is possibly because he feels the same way you do: he likes you, but he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. There's a couple of things you can do to flirt, but not ask him out yet. You need to drop hints, and they have to be big hints, or else he won't pick them up, because face it, he's a guy :) lol so ask him to hang out and stuff, maybe go to the movies on like a "group date" or go to school/sporting events with him, so it's not totally awkward. But wait awhile before you "profess your love". He might get freaked out, and you don't want to lose your friendship. Once you start hanging our more and flirting a little more, see if he responds and likes hanging out with you more. He might even start flirting back a little ;). After you've hung out for awhile, and you think he likes you back, then you've got to  do it and just ask him out! Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all <3

charminxspehd

So it's Jenn (again!) updating on how things went with that kid.

I totally just ignored the fact that I liked him for awhile and I thought he stopped liking me again. And then someone told him that I still liked him and we ended up talking... this is how the conversation ended up:

HIM: it's not that i don't love you anymore jenn. My feelings about us have been mixed since we broke up and many times i have though about u and i just don't know because i wasn't sure wether i ever felt the right way about all that shit. i do miss us and u. right now i can't say exactly how i feel but i do and probably always will feel love for you as the love we felt was stronger than what many people have felt and i know that physically we never did much but emotionally we were very close and passionate. i would be with you again, but right now i'm just not sure but i will definatly think about it

HIM: i promise

HIM: and trust me, ur still in my heart jenn

ME: thank you josh.. that means so much

ME: you have no idea.

ME: i just felt like you hated me sometimes and no matter how many times you said you didn't it just... i don't know why but it felt like you did..

HIM: well it's my confusion that has kept me distant and away. i just don't know but u r in my heart and i do still see a possibility of us being a couple again

ME: all i care about is that i'm in your heart.

ME: what happens in the future, whether we do or don't get back together... i just need you.

HIM: well u got me

so now i'm sort of lost. Do I believe him? He's acting more like he likes me this time... but I'm not sure if he does. Should I back off, or should I try and get him back?


-Jenn

PS- thanks for your help!

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Well. It sounds like this guy is REALLY confused!He obviously likes you a lot, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship. If he really loves you that much, you two would be a couple. So what you need to do is give him a little time. Now he needs some time to get his act together and decide if he really loves you. And if he does, then that's great! But don't get back together with him just because he says he needs you. You can get back together with him, but make sure you really want to because you love him too. And if he never asks you out again, then things are just too screwed up from before. It sucks, but if he really loves you, he would ask you to be his girlfriend. You two might be too broken to be fixed. Just spend some time thinking, and ask yourself if you really love him. There's no rush, it's your choice. But it's really time for you to call the shots!

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Sugarplusspice;;;

Okay so there is this kid, and i really really like him and he asked me out like 2 weeks ago [ : )]. the prob is that he is on the bottom flor of school and i am on the top and we never see each ohter at school except when he walks me to my bus. And i can't hang out with him during weekedns cause i have my dance recitials and concerts and plans already. he does to. Do you have any advice about hoe we can like find a time to hang out.

Ok next question, my Eigth Grade Prom (yes we have and eigth grade Prom : ) ] is coming up and we are kinda tight on money and stuff. I really want a short dress and ge tmy nails done but idk of any cheap places to go. So do you have any ideas of where to get a dress aor get my nails done??

last question, i finally suscribed :] and i really don't know how to start a blogring, I joined the blogring you are in now but idk how to like start it.  Like get rid of y xanga theme and stuff, I found a really cute layout but idk how to apply it and then idk how to even put icons and profiles and it.

thank you sooo much if you can help!!

xoxo C

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Wow it sounds like you two are really busy! I know you said you two are really busy, but i'm sure there's time when you two can get together! try to think of a day when you two are both available, for maybe like an hour. it may be after school on wednesdays, or sunday afternoons! just try to find a time when you can both go and do stuff together without being stressed about everything else. you may think there's no time in your schedule, but it's not like your busy every single second of the day! since you don't see him a lot during school, try to do other things, like going to the movies, or even walking to the park. and if you're having trouble getting together, it's almost summer, right? and then you've got all the free time in the world :)

So you're a little tight on money? Not a problem. For your dress, you can go to "non stereotype-ish" stores for your prom dress. I mean, who would have thought Kohls had such awesome dresses in the junior section? also, if things are really tight, there's nothing wrong with doing a "dress swap" with one of your good friends. that way you both have an awesome dress to wear to prom. and for your nails, you can always find places with discounts and special deals. you'll just have to do some searching. and you can always do your nails at home! do them yourself, or find a friend who's really good at painting nails! don't forget the top coat ;)

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dear sugarplusspice,
i'm 15 years old and i've never had a boyfriend. i'm really jealous of all my friends who have guys. sometimes, i just wonder what's wrong with me. because if i was good enough then guys would like me. i just want to know that for once i'm good enough. i'm already pretty self conscious about my weight and the way i look. and when people playfully put me down, i take it really personally and it completely ruins my day. i feel like i base what i think about myself off of what others think about me. worse yet, i feel completely bored with life. i have some family problems going on right now and its just like all my passion for life is gone. i have nothing to be passionate about. i'm not involved in any sports cause im not very good and i love dancing but im too scared that if i join a dance class, im not going to be as good as the other dancers.  i go to a prep school and they place a whole bunch of pressure on knowing what you want to be when you grow up. i have no idea cause i don't know what i want to do. i'm just really confused with life. if i had a boyfriend, or just someone to love, things would be better. can you please give me some advice on what to do with my life?
 
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It sounds like your really upset about a lot of things right now. Pressure for school, boredom, family problems, and jealousy of boyfriends. You say everything would be better with a boyfriend. This is not true, I don't care what other people say. A boyfriend is great, but it's not going to make your life great and amazing! Just because you don't have a boyfriend, doesn't mean you can't be happy! You said you don't do any sports? Are there any sports you're interested in? You should definitely try out for some sports, our at least join some clubs/activities that you're interested in. Also, take some "you" time. Do things you like to do, whether it's reading a really good book outside or going to the movies with your friends. And as for family problems and school problems, it's almost summer! You can lay back and relax for once :) Also, summer's a great time for a summer fling ;) Try not to worry about boys for now! It may sound cheesy, but something will happen when the time is right <3
 
 

so heres the deal. its my ex boyfriend, and my best friend. so i went out with this guy, and i dumped him, then we got back together, and then he dumped me and then we got back together and then he dumped me because he thought i was cheating on him! anyway, the last time we broke up, he got with my BFF. this didnt bother me, because i never really liked the boy. anyway, it started bothering me a few weeks later. i got with another guy, but my ex kept making fun of me! everything i did, he had something negative to say about it. i try to tell him to stop, but he doesnt listen. i am not asking for friendship from him, just a little respect! but i tryed telling my BFF (his gf) to get him to stop making fun and being mean to me, and she always gets mad at me! she always says- ITS NOT MY PROBLEM DEAL WITH IT YOURSELF. and i say i knoww it is not your problem, but you can certainly help it. and she is just liek... i hate when u tell me about all your crap that doesnt involve me. i really dont know what to do anymore. please please help me .

-NikkiRay

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Okay, so here's the deal. Your ex boyfriend is being really nasty to you, which is really rude and uncalled for! The reason is, he's probably just jealous OR he thinks hes punishing you for "cheating on him" even though you didn't. This might also be why he is going out with your best friend. Either he REALLY likes her, or he's just trying to get back at you. The best thing to do is just ignore him. I know it's going to be hard, since he's being so nasty, but eventually, if he sees it's not bothering you, he'll stop. And if not, whatever! It's his loss! Next problem: your best friend. I know it's not "her problem" to deal with her boyfriend, but if he's being that mean to you, then she should say something. If she completely ignores his nasty comments, then she's not being a true friend. Have a talk to her, and tell her why he's really bothering you. Say, "I don't want to split you two split up or anything, but he is being really negative towards me. I don't want to be best friends with him or anything, but I just want a little respect!" Like I said, if she's your true friend, she'll understand. Good luck talking to your friend, and remember, hold your head up high! He's just being an ass :)

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